{"id":693,"date":"2021-12-31T12:00:24","date_gmt":"2021-12-31T02:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/2023\/goals-v-resolutions-creating-and-keeping-your-new-years-wish-list\/"},"modified":"2023-01-03T08:15:31","modified_gmt":"2023-01-02T22:15:31","slug":"goals-v-resolutions-creating-and-keeping-your-new-years-wish-list","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/2021\/goals-v-resolutions-creating-and-keeping-your-new-years-wish-list\/","title":{"rendered":"Goals v Resolutions: Creating and Keeping your New Year\u2019s Wish List"},"content":{"rendered":"<table id=\"isPasted\" style=\"width: 100.0%; border-collapse: collapse; border: none; mso-border-alt: dot-dash windowtext .25pt; mso-yfti-tbllook: 1184; mso-padding-alt: 0cm 5.4pt 0cm 5.4pt; mso-border-insideh: none; mso-border-insidev: none;\" border=\"1\" width=\"100%\" cellspacing=\"0\" cellpadding=\"0\">\r\n<tbody>\r\n<tr style=\"mso-yfti-irow: 0; mso-yfti-firstrow: yes; mso-yfti-lastrow: yes;\">\r\n<td style=\"width: 100.0%; border: dashed windowtext 1.0pt; mso-border-alt: dot-dash windowtext .25pt; background: #D9D9D9; mso-background-themecolor: background1; mso-background-themeshade: 217; padding: 7.1pt 7.1pt 7.1pt 7.1pt;\" valign=\"top\" width=\"100%\">\r\n<h5 style=\"text-align: center;\">Out with the old, in with the new. May the New Year bring you peace, prosperity, and fortune! New Year is an exciting time to set goals for the future!<\/h5>\r\n<\/td>\r\n<\/tr>\r\n<\/tbody>\r\n<\/table>\r\n<p>Many of us make New Year\u2019s resolutions and then break them. Others feel that goals are too lofty and focus on day-to-day tasks instead. Is it time to change your perspective on both?<\/p>\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_639\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-639\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-639 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/img-857-454x394-1-300x260.jpg\" alt=\"Photograph of Belinda D'Alessandro. Belinda is wearing a red jacket over a red dress and a string of pearls. She is standing in front of windows with shutters\" width=\"300\" height=\"260\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/img-857-454x394-1-300x260.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/img-857-454x394-1.jpg 454w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 85vw, 300px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-639\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Belinda D&#8217;Alessandro<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p id=\"isPasted\">The Covid\u201319 pandemic is nearing its third year, and you\u2019ve heard it before. The New Year bombards us with lots of ideas for resolutions. They\u2019re everywhere on the internet, periodicals, and social media.<\/p>\r\n<p>But you may wonder, \u201cWhat\u2019s the point?\u201d after another year of dealing with the Covid\u201319 pandemic. The question is, \u201cIs it necessary for us to make resolutions?\u201d<\/p>\r\n<p id=\"isPasted\">Even though there was (and still is) ambiguity surrounding the COVID-19 pandemic, last year, <a class=\"u-active-none u-border-none u-btn u-button-style u-hover-none u-none u-text-palette-4-base u-block-2e79-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.verywellmind.com\/reader-survey-new-years-resolutions-5093510\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a study of Verywell Mind readers<\/a> showed an increased desire to make a New Year\u2019s resolution, which instead motivated many people to keep pushing for self-improvement, despite the pandemic uncertainty.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Why have Goals and Resolutions?<\/h2>\r\n<p>With or without crisis, having clear goals will help you see things more clearly and stay focused for the coming year, irrespective of whether or not you\u2019re in an emergency.<\/p>\r\n<p>But, of course, it\u2019s another matter entirely whether or not you\u2019ll stick to your resolutions in the long run. Our dreams and aspirations for 2021 may have been dashed again, and now we\u2019re left to wonder if 2022 will be any better. So, why not kick off in style by taking back the reins with a new plan of action?<\/p>\r\n<h2>What are Goals and Resolutions?<\/h2>\r\n<p>What\u2019s the difference between goals and resolutions? While you may have set resolutions to improve your life, it is essential to recognize that a goal needs time and effort to make it happen. Goals result from a process that includes specific steps and tasks, making them more measurable than resolutions.<\/p>\r\n<p>The concept of setting goals and making resolutions is to develop a specific plan of action to ensure you succeed in accomplishing something important. It\u2019s about visualizing your success in your head, planning for it, taking action, and then following through on that plan until you achieve that goal.<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p>\u201cA goal is not always meant to be reached; it often serves simply as something to aim at.\u201d Bruce Lee<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<p>Goals and resolutions are two different ways of looking at the same thing. Both are about setting yourself a clear direction for the future, and both involve taking action. The difference is that goals are about setting a target you\u2019d like to achieve over an extended period, and resolutions are about making a change in your life.<\/p>\r\n<p>The most important part of goal setting is to track your progress. Setting goals is pointless if you don\u2019t have a way of knowing if you\u2019re on track.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Why do we need to create goals and resolutions?<\/h2>\r\n<p>The new year is a time for people to reflect, re-evaluate and plan for the future. Many people are all about setting big, ambitious goals, but that\u2019s not always the best way to approach resolutions.<\/p>\r\n<p>Some of the most successful people don\u2019t make resolutions. The reasons for this are simple: we don\u2019t need to be perfect, and it\u2019s better to implement more minor changes throughout the year rather than one big goal at the start of it.<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p>\u201cThe great danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.\u201d Michelangelo<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<p>It\u2019s important to remember that you\u2019re setting a target when you set a goal. You\u2019re not necessarily saying, \u201cI\u2019m going to achieve this goal by this date.\u201d If you say that, it becomes a deadline, and you can feel the pressure building up. Instead, set a target. Say to yourself, \u201cI\u2019m going to achieve this goal by the end of this year.\u201d Then work backwards: figure out what you need to do to achieve the goal.<\/p>\r\n<figure id=\"attachment_654\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-654\" style=\"width: 450px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-654\" src=\"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mbr-550x367-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mbr-550x367-1.png 550w, https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/mbr-550x367-1-300x200.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 85vw, 450px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-654\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Linear mind map for setting goals<\/figcaption><\/figure>\r\n<p>Goals and resolutions are fundamental to our lives, yet only 38% of us have written goals. That\u2019s why only 8% of us are actually successful in achieving them.<\/p>\r\n<p id=\"isPasted\">Creating goals is like planting seeds for success. They give us a clear direction in life, a vision that we can work towards. They also determine where our focus goes and what we choose to leave behind. Decide what you want and set your goals accordingly.<\/p>\r\n<p>The first step to writing a goal is getting specific. Goals that are too general or broad will not be meaningful enough to help you stay motivated.<\/p>\r\n<h2 id=\"isPasted\">How can you set goals and resolutions that will last?<\/h2>\r\n<p>Millions of people set goals and resolutions that they never follow through on every year. But knowing what your goals are and knowing how to reach them are different things.<\/p>\r\n<p>We tend to set goals that are too broad or too vague. Vague goals are easy to forget and bad at motivating us to work towards them. They also make us feel like we\u2019re not doing anything at all.<\/p>\r\n<p>Broad goals are the exact opposite. We can brainstorm hundreds of ideas that could fit in with general goals, but it\u2019s hard to narrow down what we really want. And if you must narrow your goals down even more, you may start to see a trend. Maybe you have to start with smaller goals and work your way up. Perhaps you need to set more than one goal at a time.<\/p>\r\n<p>Whatever the case may be, remember it\u2019s a process. It\u2019s not going to happen overnight, and it\u2019s okay if you must take a step back sometimes.<\/p>\r\n<p>I\u2019m still working on this, but it\u2019s okay to set smaller goals and celebrate those victories.<\/p>\r\n<p>Setting a big goal is a great way to get motivated and excited about what you want to achieve in the next year when you go into the new year. Set goals and resolutions that will last. Setting your goals and knowing how to get there is a great way to keep you on track every year.<\/p>\r\n<p>So how do you set goals that you\u2019ll be able to achieve?<\/p>\r\n<h2 id=\"isPasted\">Have SMART goals<\/h2>\r\n<p>If your goals aren\u2019t SMART, you won\u2019t be able to accomplish them. When it comes to SMART goals, they are defined as:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">SPECIFIC<\/span> \u2013 Objectives must be clearly defined and unambiguous to be effective. It\u2019s a good idea to split a larger goal into smaller ones.<\/li>\r\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">MEASURABLE<\/span> \u2013 When results can be measured and evaluated using qualitative and quantitative criteria, an objective is said to be measurable.<\/li>\r\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">ATTAINABLE<\/span> \u2013 Achieving a goal necessitates hard work and dedication. Each objective should have a level of ambition that is neither too high (frustration) nor too low (success) (boredom). Remember that you can always raise or lower the bar as you progress.<\/li>\r\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">RELEVANT<\/span> \u2013 To be achievable, a goal must take into account your current circumstances and your available resources (including time, energy, and money) (family, professional, financial). Determine how much time you spend on each activity and how it relates to the other goals you\u2019ve established for yourself.<\/li>\r\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: bold;\">TIME-BOUND<\/span> \u2013 The goal must have a specific deadline. Setting an end date and frequency (daily\/weekly\/etc.) allows the goal to be ongoing or only one time<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p id=\"isPasted\">You\u2019ll be more successful if you develop goals with these elements in them.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Write them down<\/h2>\r\n<p>Don\u2019t merely focus on what you want to achieve \u2014 write it down. Make your goals more concrete and believable by doing this. <a title=\"How To Get Really Good Writing Ideas: The Power of Research and Reading\" href=\"https:\/\/bdabooks.com.au\/Blog\/2021\/how-to-get-really-good-writing-ideas-the-power-of-research-and-reading\/\">As I mentioned in my last post<\/a>, if it\u2019s not written down, it didn\u2019t, and won\u2019t, happen!<\/p>\r\n<p>Writing out your goals has been proven to be beneficial. According to research, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dominican.edu\/sites\/default\/files\/2020-02\/gailmatthews-harvard-goals-researchsummary.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">such as that of Dr Gail Matthews of Dominican University of California<\/a>, people who write down their goals have a better probability of completing more than those who don\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Make your goals clear: Break them down<\/h2>\r\n<p id=\"isPasted\">Make sure you can see your written goals to avoid losing focus. In addition, your destination should serve as a constant reminder of your ultimate goal.<\/p>\r\n<p>Post them on your fridge or bathroom mirror as a reminder to yourself each morning of the goals you have set for yourself. Even if only to family and friends, making them public to keep you accountable can also be a valuable motivator.<\/p>\r\n<p>Reduce the complexity of long-term and abstract objectives by segmenting them into smaller components.<\/p>\r\n<p>Use a \u201cgoal ladder\u201d to keep track of your progress. As you climb the ladder, establish a list of the smaller goals you need to complete to get to the top.<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p>\u201cIf you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.\u201d Albert Einstein<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<p>Having decided on your goals, the following stage is to figure up a strategy for achieving those goals.<\/p>\r\n<p>Prioritise your work and break it into smaller, more manageable chunks. Finally, make a plan of action to help you remain on track. A good technique is checking off each step as you complete it. This will help you track your progress and see how far you still have to go.<\/p>\r\n<p>It won\u2019t happen on its own. But, now that you\u2019ve laid out your strategy for accomplishing your goals, it\u2019s time to take action. Implement your strategy.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019ll get closer to your objective even if you only do one tiny thing.<\/p>\r\n<h2 id=\"isPasted\">Think of Potential Obstacles and Real Solutions<\/h2>\r\n<p>Successful people fail more frequently than unsuccessful ones because they persist despite setbacks. They have the tenacity to get back up and try again. They also believe that failures are only temporary setbacks, not permanent failures. They know that success is just around the corner.<\/p>\r\n<blockquote>\r\n<p>\u201cSuccess is going from failure to failure without a loss of enthusiasm.\u201d Winston Churchill<\/p>\r\n<\/blockquote>\r\n<p>It\u2019s because most writers think about writing as a chore. But research is fun! It opens up a world of possibilities and new ways to look at things. So if you want to generate fantastic ideas, you have to start viewing research as a way to have fun with writing rather than as a necessary evil on the route to writing your masterpiece.<\/p>\r\n<h2 id=\"isPasted\">Reflecting on your goals at the end of the year!<\/h2>\r\n<p>The end of the year is a time of reflection. It\u2019s a time to look back on what we\u2019ve done and look ahead to what we want to do. That\u2019s why it\u2019s such a great time to evaluate your goals and set new ones for the coming year. Setting goals and reflecting on your progress are vital to accomplishing them.<\/p>\r\n<p>The first step in the process is to set your goals. The second step is to reflect on those goals at the end of each month. Then, finally, look back on what you\u2019ve done, evaluate your successes and failures, and determine what you can do to improve.<\/p>\r\n<p>Finally, when you reach the end of the year, take time to sit down and reflect on all that you\u2019ve learned throughout the year. Take time to look back at your goals and achievements and consider if they have changed or remained the same.<\/p>\r\n<p>We know that reflection makes us more motivated and productive in the future, so it\u2019s easy to understand why the \u201cend of year review\u201d has become a standard technique for productivity. Of course, the most successful companies in the world do an annual review with their team, but you can apply this method to your life as well.<\/p>\r\n<p>If you don\u2019t have time to do a full-fledged review every year, at least take some time to look back on your goals; consider the progress you\u2019ve made so far and what you want to accomplish going forward.<\/p>\r\n<h2>Taking my own advice<\/h2>\r\n<p>So, I\u2019m going to take my own advice and make them public. Here are my resolutions for 2022:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n<li id=\"isPasted\">Read more<\/li>\r\n<li>Write more<\/li>\r\n<li>Listen To Podcasts<\/li>\r\n<li>Learn a new skill<\/li>\r\n<li>Clear out the clutter in my home<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<h2 id=\"isPasted\">At the end of the day<\/h2>\r\n<p>A goal is something you want to accomplish. It should be specific and in the form of action. A resolution is a commitment to take a particular action, but it doesn\u2019t have a time limit or due date.<\/p>\r\n<p>By picking achievable and realistic goals, writing them down and sharing them, you can begin accomplishing them before the end of January.<\/p>\r\n<p>I hope this post has helped you set some goals for 2022!<\/p>\r\n<h2>Final thoughts<\/h2>\r\n<p>The past year was one for the books, and a new year means a new chapter. From resolutions to bucket lists, I hope you check them all off this year and that 2022 is an incredible part of your story.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, what are some goals or resolutions you have for 2022? What are some of your favourite ways to stay motivated? 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